First date murume anofanira kushandisa mari yakawanda sei?

[Sekuru Dhorofiya]

Imarii murume yaanofanira kushandisa pazuva rekutanga?

 

[Lorenzo]

The problem is too many people assume every person is progressive. Some folks are progressive and others are traditional. Not every woman or man is progressive. You gotta do what works for you. But it’s a simple courtesy that whoever asked should offer to pay.

 

[Bla Jedza]

If you asked for the date you should pay.

Dates are a mutual activity though. If you are not really interested you should decline the offer.

And for the record, one-minute daiges want an oan to pay for something, the next minute they want to be Ms. Independent.

This is exactly what @Numero Uno and @Borrowdale Barron were talking about.

 

[Theophrastus]

@Chenai dating as a professional adult is really different from dating as a student.

@Sekuru Dhorofiya @Borrowdale Barron yes people have different agendas when it comes to dating.

For example, some date with the goal of finding a wife or a husband and don't want their time wasted.

You also have got folks who date for the sole purposes of getting laid.

And finally, there are people who date for the sole purpose of extracting resources.

 

[Munyaradzi Mafaro]

@Chenai dating as a professional adult is really different from dating as a student.

@Sekuru Dhorofiya People also have different agendas when it comes to dating.

For example, some date with the goal of finding a wife or a husband and don't want their time wasted.

You also have got folks who date for the sole purposes of getting laid.

And finally, there are people who date for the sole purpose of extracting resources.

Okay, those are good points but you didn't answer the question.

The question is how much should a man spend on a first date?

 

[Theophrastus]

Okay those are good points but you didn't answer the question.

The question is how much should a man spend on a first date?

It all comes down to one's financial status. It's not everyone who is loaded.

To most folks, £200 to £400 suggested by @Scorpio it's seriously a lot of money for a date.

However, the same amount is pocket change to high-value men who are already established.

@Tanonoka's advice is what I would highly recommend because it sounds reasonable.

 

[Dziva]

@Borrowdale Barron yeah, that’s all true. Nowadays, a lot of women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to romance, thinking they deserve a high-value man when most of them are average themselves with a high body count as well.

And sometimes pleasing women is a fool's journey.

 

[Maidei]

@Borrowdale Barron yeah, that’s all true. Nowadays, a lot of women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to romance, thinking they deserve a high-value man when most of them are average themselves with a high body count as well.

Lol, that’s because most oans who think women's standards are too high have hella kids and baby mamas, a felony, no license, and still tryna borrow a daige's car when she’s at work, and lest I forget to mention they look up to Future Hendrix.

 

[Daniel]

@Tafadzwa Twabam @Bla Jedza the focus seems to be on the tangibles and not the intangibles like being a good person, honest, loving, respectful, etc. Also, you might want to add being single to the top of the list.

 

[prosper]

My dating policy is not to date unemployed women, they are huge red flags and I find them very unattractive.

 

[lloyd]

Smash first then take them on a date. Maybe.

If you gotta pay for a meal to get a good ride you already lost.

 

[Shonaboy]

Smash first then take them on a date. Maybe.

If you gotta pay for a meal to get a good ride you already lost.

But if you get a good ride after you pay for the meal I think that's at least a tie.

 

[Joe]

People make relationships way more complicated than what is.

And also some men don't know what they want i.e. whether they are looking for a submissive or supportive woman. Submissive means they're at home while you kill yourself working to pay for her. Supportive means we're sharing the load in everything.

 

[Tafirakureva Manyengavana]

People make relationships way more complicated than what is.

Facts.

 

[Branso]

I never had a problem finding good daiges. Oans just be looking in the wrong places for them like clubs and the hood. Look outside of that and find someone who doesn’t overuse slang and doesn’t underdress or wear hoop earrings lol.

 

[Shamiso]

I never had a problem finding good daiges. Oans just be looking in the wrong places for them like clubs and the hood. Look outside of that and find someone who doesn’t overuse slang and doesn’t underdress or wear hoop earrings lol.

What’s wrong with hoops earrings though?

 

[Munyaradzi Mafaro]

What’s wrong with hoops earrings though?

I think he referring to chicks that wear beauty supply earrings.

 

[Nero]

I ain't spending more than $50 (USD) on dinner on a first date. It's about getting to know you and seeing if you're worth the investment. You're a fool if you go to test drive a car and take it to get an oil change, new brakes, and fill up the tank.

As for dudes who expect to hit the box if you have $300 (USD) to spend, get guaranteed booty from an escort rather than to take a broad on a date. I have seen and heard lame dudes getting mad cause shawty said no she ain't coming home with them.

 

[Germanicus]

If you’re trying to get to know a daige but not trying to spend too much money, take her to a park, coffee shop, or somewhere where prices are roughly the same. And as lame as it sounds, it will tell you everything you need to know about her just by how she reacts to you taking her to a park.

If she’s offended because you ain’t spending money. That’s all you need to know. Next. If sex is your whole reason for taking her out you have a better chance just offering her the money for some coochie than wasting both of y’all time.

 

[Theudebald]

How do you answer the body count question?

 

[Boris]

How do you answer the body count question?

Women underestimate whilst men overestimate, and simps masturbate.

Anyway, you just say 3.