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[QUOTE="Queen, post: 87712, member: 27"]
Two failed marriages, one to a closeted spouse and another to an abusive partner, preceded Kikelomo Atanda-Owo's fresh start with Reuben Abati.

Atanda-Owo opens up on past marriages
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[*]Kikelomo Atanda-Owo went through two divorces before meeting Abati.
[*]Her first husband turned out to be gay without her knowledge.
[*]Marriage number two involved serial infidelity and abuse.
[*]She and Abati tied the knot in 2020 after all of that.
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Kids and self-discovery reframed everything
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[*]Atanda-Owo calls her children the greatest investment of her life.
[*]Finding personal clarity came before finding the right partner.
[*]Her upbringing shaped how she confused love with commitment.
[*]A grandmother's passing left her craving emotional stability early on.
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Advice she is putting out there
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[*]Gay individuals should be upfront instead of deceiving partners.
[*]Abusive relationships deserve an exit, not endurance.
[*]Self-awareness matters more than outside opinions on your choices.
[*]Aligning with the right person only works after healing first.
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