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Message: [QUOTE="Bombastus, post: 93817, member: 2178"] Ruth Kadiri says lavish weddings can make married life harder. Her Instagram video took aim at the urge to impress guests with huge events. The Nollywood star warned that all the fuss can leave couples with money woes, fear, and emotional stress. She raised concerns about faith and mental health as well. Her view comes from personal experience. Kadiri has spent seven years as a wife, and she credits her low-key ceremony for part of her success. Some marriages barely last a few months, she noted. Even getting used to life as a spouse can take six months. Quite an adjustment. For her, a modest event makes far more sense. A few relatives can meet for the bride price, while 30 guests can attend a court service. Afterward, a pastor can pray at home, and everyone can relax. No giant guest list needed. But Nigeria has a habit of making weddings a big deal, in her view. Between the engagement party, church service, court vows, and family rites, couples may feel forced to do it all. Kadiri rejects the idea that each step is a must for a lasting union. She went further with a claim about spiritual harm. The actress suggested that certain guests could cause problems for newlyweds, even affecting their ability to have kids. That was her personal belief, not an established medical fact. And parents got a message as well. Kadiri, who has two children, urged families to quit pushing younger people to get rich fast and send cash home. She wants the next generation to change that pattern rather than keep passing the same demands along. [/QUOTE]

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