There is a fine line between dating and sex work.
A person's intention is what determines the true nature of the relationship.
Some daiges choose to venture into sex work whilst hiding under the pretext of dating.
Some oans utilize dating as a travesty to empty their sacks on a regular basis with a soufflé who otherwise will decline such an approach unless in the context of a relationship.
Men lie, women lie... nothing is new under the sky.