@Nehanda mumaonero angu kuzviroora it's a sign of desperation mostly driven by societal pressure and the dreadful fear of being single forever without a significant other.
However, if you are patient enough, don't have a bad reputation, and multiple baby daddies all over the place you can always find murume who can afford not only to take care of himself but kubatanidza mari yerusambo nedanga.
By the way, why would any woman want murume asina kana kobo zvaro? Ahyas, murume asina kurongeka se madomasi pamusika ngazvigare—he is a man-child and there is not much to say about him!