Why do some women dislike men for being virgins?

[Numero Uno]

Why are some women put off by men who say they are virgins? What's really the logic behind that type of reasoning?

 

[Jimmy Greaves-Neal]

The age is actually 30 for asking what's wrong.

No it isn't. That starts at 25 for women. It's weird and not normal to them from 25-30. Past 30, that man is out of luck. Escorts are his only option at that point.

 

[Kent Meggison]

No it isn't. That starts at 25 for women. It's weird and not normal to them from 25-30. Past 30, that man is out of luck. Escorts are his only option at that point.

I've known a few dudes who've found themselves a girlfriend past 30 and lost it.

 

[Rory Destri]

It's a red flag not that he's a virgin but his lack of experience in relationships. Come on. There could be a dude with a 50 body count who could be lacking relationship skills too. That player could probably bounce around from a short-term situation, less than 2 weeks, to another short-term hook-up.

 

[Jimmy Greaves-Neal]

I've known a few dudes who've found themselves a girlfriend past 30 and lost it.

That is not the norm though.

Most men who are virgins past the age of 25 will stay so indefinitely unless they use an escort.

 

[Kent Meggison]

That is not the norm though.

Most men who are virgins past the age of 25 will stay so indefinitely unless they use an escort.

You're acting like it's a hard-set rule. It's not. Rare, but it can happen.

 

[Tim Wilton]

Older women don't seem to have a problem with it. They're typically more understanding.

 

[Josh Rudman]

If women lie about their body count then I don't see any difference if a guy lies about not being a virgin. Plus, lying about not being a virgin is a pretty harmless lie.

 

[Takayuki Brooks]

Older women don't seem to have a problem with it. They're typically more understanding.

They are more understanding because of their decreasing SMV (i.e., sexual market value).

 

[Anna Yamada]

If women lie about their body count then I don't see any difference if a guy lies about not being a virgin. Plus, lying about not being a virgin is a pretty harmless lie.

Well, if you want to "just get over it", maybe. But if you want it to be meaningful in some way and with a woman that means something to you, it's probably not a good idea to start everything with a lie, right?

 

[Josh Rudman]

Well, if you want to "just get over it", maybe. But if you want it to be meaningful in some way and with a woman that means something to you, it's probably not a good idea to start everything with a lie, right?

You can argue that sex may be more "meaningful" or special if both partners are virgins. However, if the woman that you're dating is not a virgin then what difference does it make if a guy lies about not being a virgin?

 

[Anna Yamada]

You can argue that sex may be more "meaningful" or special if both partners are virgins. However, if a woman that you're dating is not a virgin then what difference does it make if a guy lies about not being a virgin?

It's still his first time and he will probably remember it for a long time. So it probably will be meaningful to him in some way. But wouldn't you like it more to have this memory with a woman you would see a chance of having a future together instead of some random girl whose name you will have forgotten two years later? And let's say you start a relationship with her, then you already have lied to her, just to get in bed with her. I think I wouldn't like that.

 

[Chris Kessler]

Well, if you want to "just get over it", maybe. But if you want it to be meaningful in some way and with a woman that means something to you, it's probably not a good idea to start everything with a lie, right?

Honestly, just lying about it just to get it over with I think is fine enough. And even if you guys go into a relationship say like a few months to a year down the line. You just break it to her: "Baby, our first time, was my first time." She might be upset but I don't think that's something to break up with a dude over especially over something like virginity. It's not like he's cheating or anything.