question Can Men and Women Really Be Friends?

[Numero Uno]

How genuine is friendship in most interactions between men and women?

 

[Queen]

As long as there boundaries established between a man and a woman then friendship is fine.

 

[Scorpio]

You know what, the idea of having a close female friend is the same thing as considering a choice of having huku as a pet, sooner than later you will eat it one day.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Friendship with women is very tricky. You might end up smashing the item. What's really an issue is finding a good woman.

 

[Numero Uno]

Friendship with women is very tricky. You might end up smashing the item. What's really an issue is finding a good woman.

Why is that?

 

[Scorpio]

Why is that?

Some women nowadays don't embrace their femininity. They want to be masculine and aggressive.

 

[Queen]

Some women nowadays don't embrace their femininity. They want to be masculine and aggressive.

Who hurt you?

 

[Scorpio]

Who hurt you?

I am speaking in general and you are making it all seem personal. Slow down.

What I said was lots of young women don't know how to be wife material anymore. They are more manly, especially with their mouths.

 

[Queen]

I am speaking in general and you are making it all seem personal. Slow down.

What I said was lots of young women don't know how to be wife material anymore. They are more manly, especially with their mouths.

So a woman shouldn't have to voice her opinion?

 

[Scorpio]

So a woman shouldn't have to voice her opinion?

Of course she can. But it's the way she does it which then becomes an issue.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Why is that?

Friendship with women also depends on who initiates the whole idea of being friends and I am not talking about the friend zone thing either.

In the real world it's less likely for most men to approach women just because they wanna be friends with her.

 

[Queen]

In the real world it's less likely for most men to approach women just because they wanna be friends with her.

So basically you want women to put more effort in approaching men is that it?

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

So basically you want women to put more effort in approaching men is that it?

Actually, that's not what I was trying to mention, but either way in your context I don't think many women have the confidence to initiate a conversation with a random man unlike the other way round.

 

[Scorpio]

So basically you want women to put more effort in approaching men is that it?

Why are many women opposed to the idea of approaching men?

 

[Queen]

Why are many women opposed to the idea of approaching men?

If he can't be aggressive when it comes to love and claim what he wants, he will probably be weak too at providing for a family or getting that job promotion. I am not even gonna mention entrepreneurship

In a nutshell that's the rationale why women don't really like men who lack confidence.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Why are many women opposed to the idea of approaching men?

It's because they can't stand rejection so they generally want to be in a position where they either say yes or no.

 

[Scorpio]

It's because they can't stand rejection so they generally want to be in a position where they either say yes or no.

Well, being a man rejection is part of the game.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Well, being a man rejection is part of the game.

I concur but for them they don't the same feeling of rejection to hit them back.

 

[Numero Uno]

Well, being a man rejection is part of the game.

What about a situation where she turns you down and later on she wanna date you?

 

[Scorpio]

What about a situation where she turns you down and later on she wanna date you?

The thing is so many young daiges make that mistake.

You can't just go back to a guy you once turned down choosing someone else and expect that he will still care for you at the same level he did before.

Most oans will just pretend to get a chance to chop the honey but the clever ones won't give her the time of the day.