Two widows trading public curses over a dead highlife legend, and the family elder finally stepped up, asking everybody to knock it off. Kofi Owusu, better known as Tupac, holds the Abusuapanyin role in Daddy Lumba's family, and he made the plea right at the one-year remembrance gathering.
His stance is that the job requires keeping the peace, not picking a winner. He pointed out that people carry struggles nobody else can see, so a little grace goes a long way between relatives.
Since the ceremony itself came off without drama, he sees an opening. A clean moment where both women could drop the grudge and start patching things up instead of firing shots back and forth in public.
Faith is his backup plan here. He believes reconciliation lands eventually with God steering it, and he's praying for the day both of them stand together honoring the man's memory rather than fighting over it.
He also put his hand up. If the two ever choose to protect and celebrate the legacy jointly, he'll back that effort fully.
His stance is that the job requires keeping the peace, not picking a winner. He pointed out that people carry struggles nobody else can see, so a little grace goes a long way between relatives.
Since the ceremony itself came off without drama, he sees an opening. A clean moment where both women could drop the grudge and start patching things up instead of firing shots back and forth in public.
Faith is his backup plan here. He believes reconciliation lands eventually with God steering it, and he's praying for the day both of them stand together honoring the man's memory rather than fighting over it.
He also put his hand up. If the two ever choose to protect and celebrate the legacy jointly, he'll back that effort fully.
