Mai Titi shares a personal story of her life

[Lenard]

Mai Titi went live on Facebook Live to share her personal story and before she started to narrate the ups and downs of her life she made it very clear that she is not going to be concerned about what people will say afterward.

Mai T's Story Cliff Notes & Summary​

• She starts off by saying she doesn't care if people judge her and that she won't repeat the story ever again.
• Mai Titi talks about when she got married and that was in the year 2008.
• Before Mai Tt got married she was dating a man called Tapiwa Mutikani.
• She makes reference that Tapiwa was a nobody and she dated him because of true love.
• Her parents were against the marriage because they stayed in the same neighborhood.
• Tapiwa's mother didn't like Mai Tt because she thought it was not a good idea to marry a single mother (mvana).
• Mai Tt said Tapiwa was broke and she pimped him to look fly when she bought clothes for him and sponsor him.
• She pointed out that Tapiwa's mother (Rachel Mukundwi) used to go to Zambia to sell chocolates and sweets.
• She highlights that Tapiwa's mother (Rachel Mukundwi) has 5 children by 5 different baby daddies.
• Mai Titi moves on to say her mother-in-law's house wasn't fully built and looked pretty much like a Tuckshop.
• She talks about her ill-treatment by her mother-in-law and claims she was a perfect muroora.
• She sheds light on the fights she used to have with Tapiwa's sidechicks and jumpoffs.
• Mai Titi goes further to say she even used to even buy underwear for her husband Tapiwa.
• Because of infidelity issues, Mai Tt went to court to resolve the issue when Tapiwa was living with a girlfriend called Michelle.
• She makes claims that her baby daddy doesn't contribute anything to his child but she pays $1 000 USD intuition for her child.
• Currently, she is in an interracial relationship with her Caucasian partner.
• She starts sobering and gets even more emotional - a few seconds later she begins to cry.
• Mai Tt claims Tapiwa is now on his fourth wife but is spreading a deadly virus.
• She says she has a permanent disease because of Tapiwa but doesn't state what it is.
• Points out that Tapiwa is positive and that his current wife doesn't know.
• Mai Titi says she doesn't want to see Tapiwa again and at one point Tapiwa got her locked up because Tapiwa claimed she assaulted him.

Mai Titi is Zimbabwean comedian that is popularly known for her comedy series "Mai Titi Diaries" and she sometimes collaborates with "Madam Boss" and "Bustop Tv"

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

1. Mai Titi is contradicting herself here. She called her baby daddy Tapiwa a nobody but said she had a true love for him... huh?

2. Mai Titi also said her first child was a mistake she made when she was young. So is she implying the child was brought into the world as an error?

 

[Lenard]

1. Mai Titi is contradicting herself here. She called her baby daddy Tapiwa a nobody but said she had true love for him... huh?

2. Mai Titi also said her first child was a mistake she made when she was young. So is she implying the child was brought into the world as an error?

I don't know what to say about that.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

I don't know what to say about that.

I know but why is she making serious claims on social media about her baby daddy Tapiwa Mutikani spreading a deadly disease? That's basically insinuating that Tapiwa has HIV/AIDS though.

 

[Lenard]

@Borrowdale Barron, I guess Mai Titi should have thought about taking personal stories to the world on sosho midhiya because once you say things like that people will start to have a different perception of you. Some things are better off dealt with in the background.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

@Lenard And the interesting thing about social media especially Facebook Live is people will cheer you on to get you carried away then behind your back those same people will be laughing at you. Facebook Live is the last thing you want to be on when you are grieving.

 

[Lenard]

@Borrowdale Barron, right, people just love drama. That's why they are very quick to encourage people to vent their stories not because they care about your well-being but because the drama you will create for them it's entertainment. However, Mai Titi said she doesn't care about washing her dirty linen in public so she knows what she is doing I guess.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Right, people just love drama. That's why they are very quick to encourage people to vent their stories not because they care about your well-being but because of the drama you will create for them it's entertainment.

However, Mai T said she doesn't care about washing her dirty linen in public so she knows what she is doing I guess.

Ranting on Facebook Live doesn't solve anything. It actually makes future partners avoid you because they will know you are a loose cannon.

 

[Lenard]

Ranting on Facebook Live doesn't solve anything. It actually makes future partners avoid you because they will know you are a loose cannon.

Maybe someone advised Mai Titi to vent on Facebook Live because her baby daddy Tapiwa Mutikani sent his recent wedding pictures to her. Who knows?

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Maybe someone advised Mai T to vent on Facebook Live because her baby daddy Tapiwa Mutikani sent his recent wedding pictures to her. Who knows?

Olinda Chapel set the trend when she did the same by ranting on Facebook Live about her issues with Stunner.

 

[Lenard]

Olinda Chapel set the trend when she did the same by ranting on Facebook Live about her issues with Stunner.

Olinda Chapel's case is better because at least it didn't involve disclosing one's HIV status. This Mai Titi's case is on a whole new level because once people figure out you have the virus the stigmatization will begin. To make matters worse Mai Tt has a child and imagine, her child's friends or colleagues are probably watching this. It's all a mess.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Olinda Chapel's case is better because at least it didn't involve disclosing one's HIV status. This Mai Titi's case is on a whole new level because once people figure out you have the virus the stigmatization will begin. To make matters worse Mai Tt has a child and imagine, her child's friends or colleagues are probably watching this. It's all a mess.

You know what, it's too late now to make all those considerations because the video is now out there circulating even in WhatsApp groups.

 

[Lenard]

You know what, it's too late now to make all those considerations because the video is now out there circulating even in WhatsApp groups.

Even if that's the case. I would like to hear Tapiwa Mutikani's side of the story.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Even if that's the case. I would like to hear Tapiwa Mutikani's side of the story.

I can foresee this issue between Mai T and Tapiwa Mutikani being dealt with in court because at this stage that's the only viable solution to get around this.

 

[Lenard]

I can foresee this issue between Mai T and Tapiwa Mutikani being dealt with in court because at this stage that's the only viable solution to get around this.

Sure, it makes more sense for Mai Titi to take her issues to court. Complaining on Facebook Live about her baby daddy not paying child support does nothing, unfortunately. There are laws which deal with those type of issues.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Sure, it makes more sense for Mai T to take her issues to court. Complaining on Facebook Live about her baby daddy not paying child support does nothing unfortunately. There are laws which deal with those type of issues.

But her baby daddy Tapiwa Mutikani paying child support is not really the issue here. The main problem is the fact that he gave her the monster as she said in the video.

 

[Lenard]

But her baby daddy Tapiwa Mutikani paying child support is not really the issue here. The main problem is the fact that he gave her the monster as she said in the video.

It's sad and unfortunately once you get the monster you are basically on a lifetime program. It's obviously hard to deal with at early stages but as time goes on it one gets used to being on the program like the rest of the people who are surviving that way.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

It's sad and unfortunately once you get the monster you are basically on a lifetime program. It's obviously hard to deal with at early stages but as time goes on it one gets used to being on the program like the rest of the people who are surviving that way.

It's easier said than done. The monster can lead to severe depression.

 

[Lenard]

It's easier said than done. The monster can lead to severe depression.

That's why there are professional counselors who help out people who have just got the monster. It's no longer a death sentence like it used to be back in the days. In fact, cancer is actually worse than the monster these days.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

So moral of the story is Tapiwa Mutikani has now become public enemy number one ever since this Mai T latest revelation.