Gamu Nemukuyu fled to South Africa with her kids last Wednesday after years of mental strain from her former husband, DJ Fantan. He later posted that he was searching for her and their children because they had vanished. She left because she couldn't handle the daily emotional pain he caused her anymore. He kept calling her at weird hours, like 6 AM, claiming he wanted to help with homework for the children.
DJ Fantan would appear without warning at her house, pretending to check on the kids but actually starting fights instead. Even though he ended their marriage, and she never bothered him afterward or made social media comments about him, he still controlled parts of her life. He hated that her new boyfriend helped care for the kids and paid some bills.
She described her home life as impossible to bear because his visits created such tension. At one point, she questioned if this environment was right for raising her children. Despite knowing his current wife, Vimbai, and having a good relationship with her, the real problem was her ex-husband's actions. She took him to court for child support, but he refused to pay the $300 they agreed upon.
When she asked for money to buy medicine and food for their sick child, he ignored her requests but still came to yell at her house without help. After enduring years of this treatment, she decided to move away as her only choice for mental peace. She confirmed they were safe in South Africa, and she had accepted the breakup but never reported him because she believed the authorities wouldn't do anything about it anyway.
DJ Fantan would appear without warning at her house, pretending to check on the kids but actually starting fights instead. Even though he ended their marriage, and she never bothered him afterward or made social media comments about him, he still controlled parts of her life. He hated that her new boyfriend helped care for the kids and paid some bills.
She described her home life as impossible to bear because his visits created such tension. At one point, she questioned if this environment was right for raising her children. Despite knowing his current wife, Vimbai, and having a good relationship with her, the real problem was her ex-husband's actions. She took him to court for child support, but he refused to pay the $300 they agreed upon.
When she asked for money to buy medicine and food for their sick child, he ignored her requests but still came to yell at her house without help. After enduring years of this treatment, she decided to move away as her only choice for mental peace. She confirmed they were safe in South Africa, and she had accepted the breakup but never reported him because she believed the authorities wouldn't do anything about it anyway.
