Why Aren't Modern Marriages Lasting Compared To Previous Generations?

[Tafadzwa Twabam]

Is there anything that has caused a significant change in today's relationships such that modern marriages won't last compared to previous generations?

 

[Shamiso]

Marriage is not the end goal for everyone.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

People get married for the wrong reasons nowadays.

 

[Shamiso]

People get married for the wrong reasons nowadays.

What are the "right" reasons? Seems it’s different for different people.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

What are the "right" reasons? Seems it’s different for different people.

The right reason is obviously about "true luv" besides all the material stuff -- the wrong reason is "money" kaaz in general daiges love you on the way up, but rarely on the way down.

 

[Scorpio]

Relationships are like mixtapes these days. Hot for two months, then back to square one.

 

[Black Panther]

Relationships are like mixtapes these days. Hot for two months, then back to square one.

Yuh are being generous wid two months LOL.

And another ting is rushing fi hav children too in the same process.

 

[Scorpio]

Yuh are being generous wid two months LOL.

And another ting is rushing fi hav children too in the same process.

Babies don’t keep an oan.

 

[Numero Uno]

Do y'all tink the lifestyle of having multiple baby mamas or multiple baby daddies has been normalized?

 

[Black Panther]

Do y'all tink the lifestyle of having multiple baby mamas or multiple baby daddies has been normalized?

Pretty much yes and this is a major reason why a pesin shouldn't proceed to have kids wid a pesin who ain’t fully committed to dem.

 

[Lenard]

Do y'all tink the lifestyle of having multiple baby mamas or multiple baby daddies has been normalized?

That’s the trend now -- relationships are always good until a child arrives then boom, a broken home. Therefore pipo need to quit making babies on weak foundations and shacks.

 

[Bla Jedza]

Crazy thing is anyone can get married, the million-dollar questions are how to stay married and how to be a productive spouse.