Why aren't popular Zim slay queens married?

[Borrowdale Barron]

I have noticed many famous Zim slay queens are always coming up with relationship and marriage quotes while at the same time giving dating advice but they aren't even married. So should they bother to share those thoughts when those who are actually married don't say much? To me, it doesn't make sense.

 

[Queen]

The problem is many people misconstrue the slay queen definition as upstanding wise women only because they are misled with the extravagant and luxurious lifestyle they deem as success.

 

[Scorpio]

The problem is many people misconstrue the slay queen definition as upstanding wise women only because they are misled with the extravagant and luxurious lifestyle they deem as success.

Okay, but in your words how would you then describe the slay queen meaning in simple terms?

 

[Queen]

Okay, but in your words how would you then describe the slay queen meaning in simple terms?

Slay queen just means a lady who is known to live and rub shoulders with folks in high society.

Or in other words a lady who is famous for being famous e.g. on social media.

 

[Numero Uno]

Anyone with common sense isn't gonna take advice from a basic social media socialite (or slay queen). Worse still, some "predominantly" encourage things like being good in bed as though showcasing how you are a one-trick pony is gonna make a man commit out of that one myopic reason - LOL.

 

[Queen]

Anyone with common sense isn't gonna take advice from a basic social media socialite (or slay queen).

Worse still, some "predominantly" encourage things like being good in bed as though showcasing how you are a one-trick pony is gonna make a man commit out of that one myopic reason - LOL.

Love making is important in any relationship though.

 

[Numero Uno]

Love making is important in any relationship though.

I know but my point is besides that what else are you bringing to the table - Hello? 🙄

 

[Scorpio]

Anyone with common sense isn't gonna take advice from a basic social media socialite (or slay queen).

Worse still, some "predominantly" encourage things like being good in bed as though showcasing how you are a one-trick pony is gonna make a man commit out of that one myopic reason - LOL.

Those Zim slay queens who do that are because they will be trying to hustle child support and alimony later on in the game, but the relationship itself it’s doomed for failure.

There is a very thin line between lust and love and unfortunately, a lot of broken marriages are the proof of it because they were never in love, to begin with.

Sex is a physical act, on the other hand making love is the bonding of two minds. There is a subtle difference but worlds apart at the same time.

 

[Queen]

I know but my point is besides that what else are you bringing to the table - Hello? 🙄

But why do blessers themselves approach those slay queens who ain't got nothing going on in the first place and complain about her not bringing anything to the table?

 

[Numero Uno]

But why do blessers themselves approach those slay queens who ain't got nothing going on in the first place and complain about her not bringing anything to the table?

Initially, the relationship between a blessee and a blesser will be about having fun unless things develop into something else. That's when certain things start to surface.

 

[Queen]

Initially the relationship between a blessee and a blesser will be about having fun unless things development into something else. That's when certain things start to surface.

Yeah right, whilst the blesser will be cheating on the low with other sidechicks.

 

[Scorpio]

Yeah right, whilst the blesser will be cheating on the low with other sidechicks.

They don't cheat when they choose to commit to who they want to be with. It's the blessees who will be trying to play the role of a main chick when in the actual fact they might a big house back home.

 

[Black Panther]

I disagree with y'all and I seriously don't understand why they think if you marry the blesser he'll stop cheating. A marriage won't stop a blesser from cheating if that's what he wants to do.

 

[Numero Uno]

I disagree with y'all and I seriously don't understand why they think if you marry the blesser he'll stop cheating. A marriage won't stop a blesser from cheating if that's what he wants to do.

Fairy tales are what some of these slay queens believe in cause they want a "husband" so badly.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Fairy tales are what some of these slay queens believe in cause they want a "husband" so badly.

What's wrong with having dreams though?

 

[Numero Uno]

What's wrong with having dreams though?

I am sure you should know there is a difference between having dreams and being superficial. Many slay queens start early in the olosho game wanting to have what they can't even afford, and later on proceed to pave their way into doing anything for money.

 

[Queen]

What's wrong with having dreams though?

Nothing as long as those dreams are realistic.

 

[Black Panther]

Fairy-tales and fantasy land is what some of these slay queens live in cause they be wanting a "husband" so bad.

I tell you what, some slay queens repeatedly say they don't want to because, "being married isn't an achievement," so they say.

 

[Scorpio]

I tell you what, some slay queens repeatedly say they don't want to because, "being married isn't an achievement," so they say.

One of the main functions of marriage is to enable a stable household. So why should marriage be disregarded as less of an achievement? That mentality can lead to many broken homes.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

One of the main functions of marriage is to enable a stable household. So why should marriage be disregarded as less of an achievement? That mentality can lead to many broken homes.

They be saying men are the major cause of broken homes in their IG quotes regularly.