kuchinja muriwo
means to explore all available options. So the notion of having a sidechick or better yet multiple of them is deemed as a necessity which is arguably derived from a strong cultural belief some—but not all—Zimba men have, and can be summarized as follows:
Surprisingly enough there are some Zim women who subscribe to this belief that you will never ever find a Zimbo man who doesn't have a small house or who may sometimes just hit and run.
Having said that, we can already see a double standard being that the big house (or main chick) is expected to stay in her lane and refrain from kuchinja muriwo otherwise the relationship itself will cease to exist with immediate effect. The irony, of course, is some women can cheat better than men without getting caught—go figure.
