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[Lenard]

Two adults behaving like overgrown children on sosho media... SMH!

Reading between the lines it sounds to me like Angelica Colchèita is pretty much saying: relationships are investments, not hobbies.

You know sometimes people can have a different mental age (zera repfungwa) whereby one's current mental age doesn't allow them to tolerate or do certain things anymore, either you build something solid or you let it slide.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

Reading between the lines it sounds to me like Angelica Colchèita is pretty much saying: relationships are investments, not hobbies.

You know sometimes people can have a different mental age (zera repfungwa) whereby one's current mental age doesn't allow them to tolerate or do certain things anymore, either you build something solid or you let it slide.

Why not do both? Because you’re dating for a purpose, marriage, or whatever, does it mean u can’t have fun?

 

[Lenard]

Why not do both? Because you’re dating for a purpose, marriage, or whatever, does it mean u can’t have fun?

"Fun" can be subjective.

 

[Bla Jedza]

Reading between the lines it sounds to me like Angelica Colchèita is pretty much saying: relationships are investments, not hobbies.

You know sometimes people can have a different mental age (zera repfungwa) whereby one's current mental age doesn't allow them to tolerate or do certain things anymore, either you build something solid or you let it slide.

Exactly??.

All successful relationships are products of investment. Even one's personal life can't be successful without self-investment.

 

[Munyaradzi Mafaro]

Reading between the lines it sounds to me like Angelica Colchèita is pretty much saying: relationships are investments, not hobbies.

You know sometimes people can have a different mental age (zera repfungwa) whereby one's current mental age doesn't allow them to tolerate or do certain things anymore, either you build something solid or you let it slide.

So if I see a daige I like I should just ask, "Babe I fit invest in you?"

 

[Queen]

So if I see a daige I like I should just ask, "Babe I fit invest in you?"

??? OMG.

You will get taken advantage of financially if you do something like that. It will most likely be a transactional relationship. But if you don't mind then more power to you.

 

[Bla Jedza]

So if I see a daige I like I should just ask, "Babe I fit invest in you?"

@Munyaradzi Mafaro ? I get where you’re coming from though but still what @Queen said will be the end result.

 

[Tafadzwa Twabam]

Two adults behaving like overgrown children on sosho media... SMH!

Translation: We were both toxic.

 

[Black Panther]

Translation: We were both toxic.

Right. ??

This is what I got from it too! ?

They both were toxic and the situation needed to end. Now it's starting to come out. ?

 

[Tafadzwa Twabam]

Right. ??

This is what I got from it too! ?

They both were toxic and the situation needed to end. Now it's starting to come out. ?

She's not a good example of a relationship expert. Hopefully, people can see that because they might be led astray.

 

[Shamiso]

Don't marry if you know you are gonna divorce later.

Your logic is flawed.

Most people don't get married with a clearly laid out plan to divorce. It just happens because a relationship doesn't work out unless they are a golddigger then of course, yes.

IMO a major contributor to this is that more people nowadays are narcissists than at any other time in history, so therefore the reports of rising divorce rates and relationship break-ups aren't surprising.

 

[Lenard]

Your logic is flawed.

Most people don't get married with a clearly laid out plan to divorce. It just happens because a relationship doesn't work out unless they are a golddigger then of course, yes.

IMO a major contributor to this is that more people nowadays are narcissists than at any other time in history, so therefore the reports of rising divorce rates and relationship break-ups aren't surprising.

I agree with you.

Although sometimes it isn't because you're self-centered or aren't willing to put in the work. Sometimes it is just because you are with the wrong person.

So an explanation of high divorce rates these days is due to the result of an individual not being forced to stay in a long-term commitment with someone for a lifetime.

Lest I forget, social Media is another cause too! You can get a boyfriend/girlfriend replacement in seconds. No value in relationships anymore. ?

 

[Munyaradzi Mafaro]

Your logic is flawed.

Most people don't get married with a clearly laid out plan to divorce. It just happens because a relationship doesn't work out unless they are a golddigger then of course, yes.

IMO a major contributor to this is that more people nowadays are narcissists than at any other time in history, so therefore the case of rising divorce rates and relationship break-ups isn't surprising.

People have always been narcissistic. It’s just now that they are in competition with each other due to social media.

 

[Bla Jedza]

Sonja Madzikanda's husband, Sir Wicknell Chivayo was put under pressure on a plane.

 

[Shamiso]

Sonja Madzikanda's husband, Sir Wicknell Chivayo was put under pressure on a plane.

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Zvinhu zvacho so ma1.

This is why it's good to "always leave room for disappointment," if you are in a long-term relationship. Plus it’s not for lazy people! Commitment is a full-time job.

With that said, I don't see how Sonja Madzikanda will be flattered with that image and Wicknell's caption either.

Now imagine if the roles were reversed and Sonja Madzikanda did the same thing—all hell would break loose. There would be pandemonium without a doubt.

 

[Lenard]

Sonja Madzikanda's husband, Sir Wicknell Chivayo was put under pressure on a plane.

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Wicknell Chivayo should have just kept that to himself unless he is deliberately trying to make Sonja Madzikanda jealous.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

@Shamiso @Lenard @Bla Jedza Wicknell Chivayo has been doing this for quite some time now. He once did this on Boitumelo Thulo's IG post a while back ago.

And just recently he did the same thing on Luminitsa Dumbisa Jemwa's IG post too. In summary, old habits die hard—this is exactly what's going on here.

 

[Tafadzwa Twabam]

@Borrowdale Barron perhaps Sonja Madzikanda is used to it and she doesn't mind as long as he doesn't end up in bed with another woman.

 

[Borrowdale Barron]

@Borrowdale Barron perhaps Sonja Madzikanda is used to it and she doesn't mind as long as he doesn't end up in bed with another woman.

@Tafadzwa Twabam there is no married woman who likes her husband checking out other women. She may keep quiet about it and this usually happens when she is married to a man who has money.

 

[Tafadzwa Twabam]

@Tafadzwa Twabam there is no married woman who likes her husband checking out other women. She may keep quiet about it and this usually happens when she is married to a man who has money.

You ain't never lie.

I concur! ???