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  1. Nolwazi Kwayedza

    Kudhumanisa

    "Kudhumanisa" in Shona means to date two different people at the same time, therefore, creating a love triangle. For example, a man or woman may initially be in love with Person X as their main primary partner but later on, because of whatever reason they will start getting it on with Person Y...
  2. Nolwazi Kwayedza

    Gupuro

    Gupuro {ChiShona} Definition: the money that is given to a woman by her husband after they have reached a point of irreconcilable differences in their marriage. This money carries a message in the form of cultural tradition to show that the husband has finally made up his mind, therefore, his...
  3. Nolwazi Kwayedza

    slang Time-pusha

    "Time-pusha," in Zim slang means a woman you date knowing very well you are not going to marry her as you promised her. It's never going to happen, period. The only reality is you meticulously planning the aftermath of a relationship first before you even start dating her. The reason some men...
  4. Nolwazi Kwayedza

    slang Kumhanya

    In Zim slang, "kumhanya" means dating or to be in love with someone. But this word should not be used when talking about married people. It mainly applies to couples who aren't married. Note: in the Shona language the proper/formal meaning of kumhanya means to 'run.' Example Usage: Person 1...
  5. Numero Uno

    Rudo RwaStunner naDyonne Tafirenyika Rwatapira Hameno Kuma Next Door

    Muimbi weZim Hip Hop music uyu anonzi Stunner arikuratidza kufara zvikurusa nemudzimai wake Dyonne Tafirenyika pa side. Hameno kunevanoziva kuti kuma next door eku Hukeyi zvakamira sei mazuva ano! Zvisinei hazvo, mucheni mukuru we "smart-all-the-time" Mudiwa Hood asimbisawo rudo rwaStunner...
  6. Nolwazi Kwayedza

    Kuchinja muriwo

    kuchinja muriwo means to explore all available options. So the notion of having a sidechick or better yet multiple of them is deemed as a necessity which is arguably derived from a strong cultural belief some—but not all—Zimba men have, and can be summarized as follows: Surprisingly enough...
  7. Bla Jedza

    makuhwa Ndiyani arikumhanya naAmmara Brown?

    How far naAmmara Brown -- ndiani arikudanana naye?
  8. Bla Jedza

    religion and morals Can a man lose good blessings if he marries a slay queen?

    Will a man lose his good blessings if he happens to marry a wrong woman?
  9. Bla Jedza

    Kuchaya mapoto indefinitely is that okay?

    Do people who say marriage is not an achievement in Zimbabwe really wish kuchaya mapoto ("mjolo") until forever or it's just a temporary excuse?
  10. Bla Jedza

    What does dating entail in Chivanhu?

    So what exactly does dating entail in Chivanhu or in African Traditional Religion particulary in the context of Zimbabwe?
  11. Numero Uno

    Is being a baby mama a sin?

    How come some Christians they literary consider that if someone ends up being a baby mama that's a result of sin? And generally speaking, do many people in modern society consider the term 'baby mama' as either 'derogatory' or 'offensive'?
  12. Bla Jedza

    makuhwa Somizi Mhlongo's Wedding

    South African media personality and proudly gay celebrity, Somizi Mhlongo just got married to his boyfriend Mohale Motaung and the wedding was supported by fellow SA celebrities.
  13. Bla Jedza

    The issue of maPostori and Zimbabwe marriage laws

    Is there a loophole in the Republic of Zimbabwe marriage laws that allows Mapostori to have multiple wives, and the other thing of Mapostori prophets claiming at a kraal how a female congregant should become their wife because the Holy Spirit told them so in their dreams.
  14. Bla Jedza

    makuhwa Peter Moyo atengerwa vhuzhi negero rake Caroline Rutendo Makamache

    Muimbi we musambo weSungura music, Peter Moyo, apinda machena nekugona rudo zvakarongeka nemudiwa wake Caroline Rutendo Makamache. Reports say, gero raPeter Moyo ramutengera mota yemhando yeBMW (Black-Mwiri-Wese), and now nekufamba kwenguva takutotarisira muchato waDewa naCaroline. Zvisineyi...
  15. Bla Jedza

    Zvinoita here kuti murume ayende kumafaro ega?

    Iribho here for munhu wechirume kuita zvemafaro ega here asina mudzimai wake oro bhebhi rake pedyo naye?
  16. Black Panther

    question Kutsotswa Beans Zvinorevei?

    Munhu anoti arikutsotswa beans anenge achireveyi?
  17. Black Panther

    question Kuroora kana kuroorwa kunganzi achievement here?

    Often certain people say marriage isn't an achievement but is it really because they don't see themselves ever getting married or it's just a way to temporarily comfort themselves for the time being until the perfect match comes right along?
  18. Scorpio

    What's kuchaisa mapoto?

    What does "kuchaisa mapoto" mean in chiShona culture?
  19. Scorpio

    What is the point of hating someone's dating preferences?

    Why can't just an average person accept the fact people will always have their own dating preferences without trying to force them to conform to their own dating standards?
  20. Queen

    question How does social media affect relationships?

    Are many relationships breaking down because of social media?
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